4/26(Tue.) Why we love to blame our partners (Host: Morris)
發表於 : 週三 4月 20, 2016 2:52 pm
Session I: Why we love to blame our partners?
Please watch this video which explains why we we love to blame our partners and come to share your experience and opinions in English.
https://tw.voicetube.com/videos/35302
Questions:
1. Are you easy to blame the person whom you usually trust, talk to, or go to for help first? Why or why not?
2. Do you agree with the video’s point: we can't get angry with the people who are really to blame for hurting us, so we get angry with those whom we can be sure will tolerate us for blaming them? If so, do you think it’s fair?
3. If the one you love loves you but also hurts you very much, can you accept this kind of relationship? Have you had any such kind of experience?
4. Do you love to blame your partners or the ones you love? Do you agree that it is a flattering gift of love, as the video said.
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Session II: How to Argue Without Hurting Your Partner – A Therapist’s Tips
According to the video in Session I, we are inclined to argue with and hurt our partners. Please read the following article for four tips about arguing whihout hurting them.
http://theadventurouswriter.com/quipsti ... pist-tips/
The four tips are as follows:
1. Notice when you feel defensive in an argument.
2. Say something vulnerable to your spouse during an argument
3. Reflect and validate your partner’s feelings while you’re arguing
4. Plan for the next argument
Questions:
1. What are usually the reasons that you have arguments with your lovers, good friends, and parents? Can you reflect and validate your partner’s feelings while you’re arguing?
2. What has been your biggest fight with your love in your life? Did you feel regretful? How did you conciliate your relationship after that?
3. Have you adopted any tips listed in the article? Which one is the most effective? May you suggest some other good tips?
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Agenda:
6:45 ~ 7:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:50pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
7:50 ~ 8:10pm Summarization (20 mins)
8:10 ~ 8:25pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:25 ~ 9:05pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
9:05 ~ 9:25pm Summarization (20 mins)
9:25 ~ 9:30pm Concluding Remarks / Announcements
聚會日期:列於該貼文主題內
聚會時間:當天請準時於 6:45 pm 到達 ~ 約 9:30 pm 左右結束
星期二聚會地點:丹堤濟南店
地址、電話:台北市濟南路三段25號 地圖 (02) 2740-2350
捷運站:板南線 忠孝新生站 3 號出口
走法:出忠孝新生站 3 號出口後,沿著巷子(忠孝東路三段10巷)走約 2 分鐘,到了濟南路口,左轉走約 2 分鐘即可看到。
最低消費: 80 元
注意事項:
1. 文章是否需要列印請自行斟酌,但與會者請務必自行列印 Questions for discussion。
2. 與會者請先閱讀過文章,並仔細想過所有的問題,謝謝合作!
給新朋友的話:
1. 請事先準備 2~3 分鐘的英語自我介紹;會議結束前可能會請你發表 1~2 分鐘的感想。
2. 請事先閱讀文章以及主持人所提的討論問題,並事先寫下自己所欲發表意見的英文。
3. 全程以英語進行,參加者應具備中等英語會話能力,對任一討論問題,能夠以 5 到 10 句英文表達個人見解。
4. 在正式加入之前,可以先來觀摩三次,觀摩者亦須參與討論。正式加入需繳交終身會費 NT$1,000。
Stacy Wang
President
文章: 37
註冊時間: 週一 7月 14, 2014 11:08 am
Please watch this video which explains why we we love to blame our partners and come to share your experience and opinions in English.
https://tw.voicetube.com/videos/35302
Questions:
1. Are you easy to blame the person whom you usually trust, talk to, or go to for help first? Why or why not?
2. Do you agree with the video’s point: we can't get angry with the people who are really to blame for hurting us, so we get angry with those whom we can be sure will tolerate us for blaming them? If so, do you think it’s fair?
3. If the one you love loves you but also hurts you very much, can you accept this kind of relationship? Have you had any such kind of experience?
4. Do you love to blame your partners or the ones you love? Do you agree that it is a flattering gift of love, as the video said.
*********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************
Session II: How to Argue Without Hurting Your Partner – A Therapist’s Tips
According to the video in Session I, we are inclined to argue with and hurt our partners. Please read the following article for four tips about arguing whihout hurting them.
http://theadventurouswriter.com/quipsti ... pist-tips/
The four tips are as follows:
1. Notice when you feel defensive in an argument.
2. Say something vulnerable to your spouse during an argument
3. Reflect and validate your partner’s feelings while you’re arguing
4. Plan for the next argument
Questions:
1. What are usually the reasons that you have arguments with your lovers, good friends, and parents? Can you reflect and validate your partner’s feelings while you’re arguing?
2. What has been your biggest fight with your love in your life? Did you feel regretful? How did you conciliate your relationship after that?
3. Have you adopted any tips listed in the article? Which one is the most effective? May you suggest some other good tips?
*********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************
Agenda:
6:45 ~ 7:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:50pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
7:50 ~ 8:10pm Summarization (20 mins)
8:10 ~ 8:25pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:25 ~ 9:05pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
9:05 ~ 9:25pm Summarization (20 mins)
9:25 ~ 9:30pm Concluding Remarks / Announcements
聚會日期:列於該貼文主題內
聚會時間:當天請準時於 6:45 pm 到達 ~ 約 9:30 pm 左右結束
星期二聚會地點:丹堤濟南店
地址、電話:台北市濟南路三段25號 地圖 (02) 2740-2350
捷運站:板南線 忠孝新生站 3 號出口
走法:出忠孝新生站 3 號出口後,沿著巷子(忠孝東路三段10巷)走約 2 分鐘,到了濟南路口,左轉走約 2 分鐘即可看到。
最低消費: 80 元
注意事項:
1. 文章是否需要列印請自行斟酌,但與會者請務必自行列印 Questions for discussion。
2. 與會者請先閱讀過文章,並仔細想過所有的問題,謝謝合作!
給新朋友的話:
1. 請事先準備 2~3 分鐘的英語自我介紹;會議結束前可能會請你發表 1~2 分鐘的感想。
2. 請事先閱讀文章以及主持人所提的討論問題,並事先寫下自己所欲發表意見的英文。
3. 全程以英語進行,參加者應具備中等英語會話能力,對任一討論問題,能夠以 5 到 10 句英文表達個人見解。
4. 在正式加入之前,可以先來觀摩三次,觀摩者亦須參與討論。正式加入需繳交終身會費 NT$1,000。
Stacy Wang
President
文章: 37
註冊時間: 週一 7月 14, 2014 11:08 am